Communication

Saturday, December 20, 2008

If you played with another girl and your girlfriend just pass it off as some kind of joke, I honestly think that you do not have the right to get mad at her. Since you were the one who played with another girl, in the first place. And it also doesn't mean she doesn't love you too. She might be just pretending that she didn't know, closing her eyes on this or that she's just letting you go, just this once.

I'm not taking anyone's side here. I'm just stating the point that there could be a lot of meaning to it. Nobody could really tell what she thinks. I really think that you guys should just have a good talk rather than assuming things like this. A relationship, after all, needs communication for it to last and that assumptions only make things worse. I also think that it's better to fix it now while the damage was still small. Don't wait until everything breaks into pieces because it always ended up in a situation where it can never be fixed anymore.

I'm saying this because I know so. What we couldn't patch up because of our prides, at least, I wanted you guys to be able to fix.

4 comments

  1. korek. walang karapatang magalit ang lalake! sila nauna eh.. hindi masisi ang girl.. anyway ate euri merry christmas!!! here's an ECARD for you.. :)

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  2. The universal rule is that "don't do unto others what you won't want them to do unto you." And that applies to girlfriend-boyfriend relationship.

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  3. I think that you are perfectly right. If you do something wrong, you can't blame someone because they forgive you. This doesn't mean that they don't care about you and even if it did, you have no right to start an argument, at least for a certain period of time. When things get on the right track, you can see if she cares or not.

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